The Language of Marital Happiness

Marital happiness:

Nothing in life is more important than good health and long marriage. Researchers confirm that positive conjugal relationships increase the body's immunity and reduce the risk of heart attack, by keeping the stress hormone at a low level.

Beautiful words and warm sensations have a great impact on the continuation of the perfect marriage. 

Studies have confirmed that language affects the proportion of cortisol among newlyweds. 

And that women are more sensitive to negative words. 

Cortisol is a stress-linked hormone and the greater the stress, the greater the proportion of cortisol in the blood.
In fact, women who have high cortisol are more likely to divorce after 10 years of marriage.
Women are more prone to increased cortisol levels in the blood, so they are a good gauge of marital relationships.
Some studies have confirmed that women have a stronger physical reaction than men to marital differences. 

 

This happens when a wife or a woman returns painful painful events or disputes for her.
But everyone can learn to discuss marital problems between themselves and the other party in a calm and positive way even during anger. 

There are effective ways to overcome this problem, including:
- Try to change your plans if these plans do not fit with the other party. Better than insisting on doing something that does not satisfy the other side and leads to a kind of disagreement between you.
- Always make your voice low and quiet, especially at the beginning of the dialogue.
- Do not use phrases that indicate disrespect or lack of love.
- Try reducing phrases that criticize personality and habits.
- Try to relax for 20 minutes until you calm down, if you need it.

 

Every couple needs to periods of positive friction and the exchange of discussion on various topics to avoid increasing the size of the problems where most couples work throughout the day, preoccupied with matters of their children and begin mutual dialogue between them in the drop so you must reconnect. - emotional relationships , including through:
- try to do a short stroll In the evening on their own.
- Meet after work and after returning home for 20 minutes in private.
- Select two hours per week to exit.
- Commitment to these steps as fixed habits.

 

At the beginning of marriage, the couple face many problems as a result of each individual returning to a specific system in his life.
But after marriage you have to share everything in daily life, meals, vacations and vacations.
So when you set up your life plan and determine your plans you should share the other party in it and you should keep in mind:
- Discuss your lifestyle with the other party.
- Do not insist on something specific you prefer.
- Finding new things that you share.